Why do some people never get to on a date even though they wanted to? Are they just too ugly and weird for everybody?

Hygiene/appearance are the easiest to fix. You don’t have to be a model, but be clean, smell good, and do the best you can with your looks (comb your hair, iron your clothes, etc.).

Lack of effort/anti-social reasons are fairly easy to fix too. If you are too awkward to talk to people, practice with people who are non-threatening. My advice would be to find a group of nice old people and talk to them. Old people are often lonely and will talk to anyone. They don’t care if you’re awkward; they’ll take the company. The more you get used to talking to people, the more comfortable you will get at making conversation and keeping a conversation going. Also, leave your house. If all you do is work and game, your only dating prospects are going to be food delivery people, Amazon drivers, and postal workers. Go meet people. Put yourself in environments where you see the same people every week. Start conversations. Invite someone out for coffee or lunch and don’t take it personally if people blow you off. You don’t need everyone to befriend you; you just need one or two. It may turn romantic or not, but a good friend may introduce you to someone. You never know. Good luck.

There are many reasons, but the person would have to ask someone who knows them. Most people who can’t get a date have one of the following issues: hygiene/appearance, attitude/aura, unrealistic expectations, and lack of effort/anti-social.

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A bad or “poor me” attitude/aura can be spotted from a mile away. If you’re bitter, either people can see it on your face or they can tell from your conversation. If you’re convinced that only hot people get dates or you are being mistreated because no one will date you, you will give off negative vibes that will push people away. If you are creepy, no one will want to date you either. Staring, making comments about someone’s body, stalking/hovering, and touching people without permission will get you rejected.

Unrealistic expectations happen when people refuse to stay in their lane or their list is so exacting that no one will ever live up to it. Everyone wants to date a 10, but then get mad when they’re a 5 and the 10 turns them down. Model types tend to have their pick so if you don’t meet their exact standards, you’re not getting a date. If you can’t afford them, they’re not dating you either. The other side of this is the “impossible” list. I once knew a Christian guy who wanted a girl who was: a 8–9–10 in looks, a biblical scholar, a Proverbs 31 woman, fashionably dressed and styled at all times, the saintliness of Mary mother of Jesus and Mother Theresa combined, traditional, high income earner, busy going on mission trips and heavily involved in the church, and willing to both have children and take care of the home alone. Yeah….he’s still single at 41. Shocker.